Thursday, March 11, 2004
juz changed the template. decided to go for something nicer. sweet. plain. nothing much to do today. slept at 5.47am last nite. or shud i say morning. watched the real madrid match. quite expected it was real tat will win. anyway. after looking thru some of other ppl's blog. juz realised tat.
*tis is dedicated to those of my frens who feel tat love is hurting for them and things are getting weird for them*
-Changing environment.-
some of us who come from single sex sch
find it quite hard to handle the things tat co-e sch have in store for us. like seeing gals or boys as their classmates for the 1st time in 4 yrs. some may even come from single sex pri sch. so tat makes 10 yrs. it will definitely
feel weird. some welcome tis. some dread it. but its also
interesting to have the oppo sex ard. u discover some new things u never see in ur whole life. like how some boys can actually gossip better than gals(there's always the belief tat gals gossip the most. most up-to-date. rubbish.) gals actually reads FHM. serious? yup. there's a whole lot more. boys and gals are after all human. like animals(sorry to use tis comparsion). we are curious abt the new things we see.
juz like a kitten playing with a thread ball. 1st time it sees it. the kitten is apprehensive abt going near. it tinks "is the blob of thing there(it doesn't know its a thread ball.its a kitten after all.) food? play thing? enemy? wat izzit?" so after much thoughts. it slowly approaches the thread ball lying there. harmless rite? 1st touch at it. it doesn't fight back. kitten tinks. kitten plays. kitten gets entangle with the threads. kitten gets tired from struggling to get out from the threads. kitten stops struggling. waits along for a 3rd party to help.
tis is juz like us. we are the "kitten". the oppo sex "thread ball".. when we 1st see the oppo sex. we tend to
stick with our own sex. strength lies in unity. but eventually.
some stray to find out more abt the other sex.
curiousity. soon. they find out tat the oppo sex are fun. full of interesting stuff. but
some falls in the web of "love".. which they can't help.
some end up as couples... but for
those who dun. when they realised the other side doesn't feel the same way. they
try to retreat. but like the kitten. they found out tat they
got entangled with the strings of love. they try to get rid of it. but it juz seems to become worse everytime they try to get rid of the mess. they
end up getting hurt. and the
3rd party comes
along. their
frens. most of the time frens of the same sex. they are there to
help them out.
along the way. fun. happiness. fondness. love. anger. heartaches. sadness. despair. most important of all. they
learnt something from the whole experience.
life is a learning journey. however bitter or sweet.
so dear frens. i have seen ur plight. for those who
uncontrollably got into the role of the kitten. pls
dun feel miserable.
pick up urself. allow some time for u to heal. human's heart are unfortunately made in such a way tat its so fragile. dun live in the past.
the past does not hold any happiness for wat u will experience in the future. and most important of all.
dun be scared of the oppo sex. u might have been hurt. but.
dun kill the whole flock of sheeps juz becoz there's a sick one there. (they are not bird flu). anyway. we are still young. there's time for us to really get to know the oppo sex. no hurry. take ur time. dun rush into things.
to all my frens out there. enjoy ur life! like i have said.
something good is bound to appear even in the harshest environment. take care & god bless~
over and out 9:06 PM